What no Tilda's

So that sneaky lot over DCM challenge issued the challenge for feminine card with out using Tilda's, Sugar Nellie's and Bella's. I've used a stamp I've had for a while from the Simpy Friends stamps, used two scoops and left it quite simple although my camera isn't at all happy with checks.
So imagine the scene you're sitting watching a bit of telly relaxing with a glass of wine when you suddenly realise you've done something really stupid. I've made a thank you card, nice white paper insert for the message, few bits of ribbon in a envelope, pop the address on the front, rip off the backing of the sticky bit, close the envelope and just catch the Postman. So what had I forgotten, to write the message so someone is receiving a card with ribbon in it with no clue who sent it!!!!! Maybe eccentric was right after all.
Thanks for the ideas for my a-z journal my OH though Enough (LOL) was the right one thanks Fran but I know what I've decided now to put it to paper.